My boyfriend is controlling

You are not the only one.

We talk with a lot of girls who tell us about their boyfriends

It goes something like this...

"He doesn't want me to talk to any other guys even if they are just my friends. He doesn't like me going out with my (girl) friends either because he thinks they don't like him. He sometimes gets in bad moods and I always think I did something wrong but he won't talk to me about it. He puts me down, calls me names and then the next minute tells me he can't live without me. I think about leaving him but I don't know what he will do if I break up with him. I feel so mixed up I don't know what to do."

If you are going through anything like this you may be in an abusive, controlling relationship.

Guys who act like this usually don't feel very good about themselves but they have to hide it.

You can't fix him or change him no matter how hard you try.

Do you want to come in and figure out what you want to do? We can help.

We talk to lots of girls who feel the same way you do.

We know things can get better, and we can help you figure things out.

If you're ready to talk, we're here to listen.